The other factor is you said your H is suffering from depression. If this is true, forgetfulness is part of that. It becomes difficult to distinguish sometimes between deception from forgetfulness. Also, the issue of privacy during his separation and new single life is a factor. It gets complex.
H is forgetful, but that wouldn't be the case here. I don't really think that H is entitled to privacy, but this isn't about invading his privacy. I'm not asking for him to account for his time, but to not lie to me or the children.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
