Starting to realize the obvious, my hope is that she and I will both change like in a company restructuring. Hopeless?

W was sick, in part because she refuse to let me drive her to the doctor and insisted on going by bus. Came home angry. I made lunch for the kids, offered and brought her h&lem, food. She apologized for her outburst and said that she can be anything if she feels wanted.

I bit my tongue for a while. Reminded her that during the next couple months we should try to do that 'anything' regardless of how we might feel we are being treated by the other.