I want to post in other people's threads because I want to support others, but sometimes I feel bad that I don't really have much experience or useful input. I just realized though, that when I post my naive advice in someone's thread, the "vets" just can't stand it and have to correct me, and that ends up being the help that the person in the sitch really needs grin. That just happened in Ruined's thread and it's great because she wasn't getting much input.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp
.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.