Since she controls her cell phone and you can't cut it off... the only other option left to you is to remove yourself from the equation. Stop pursuing or pressuring her. It doesn't work.
Been dying to put up this "mathematical" equation somewhere... so I guess your thread is it...
H x W = R H x W x O = 0
Where: H = husband, W = wife, R = relationship, O = other person 0 = zero.
Do the math... as long as there is an OP in the equation your relationship is ZERO.
Originally Posted By: rob668
I can't leave because she already is leaving!
You don't leave your marital home. PERIOD.
Originally Posted By: rob668
I'll cancel the cards and see a lawyer.
Good.
Originally Posted By: rob668
She sleeps in the same bed and cuddles.
Cut that out. She sleeps on the sofa or in the spare bedroom from now on.
Originally Posted By: rob668
I'll re-read my thread again.
Then post what you have learned here. I think I've asked you to do this before... if I haven't... OK... if I have... and you don't do it, I'll take it as you not putting in any effort to understand the situation and you're only here to garner sympathy or vent.
