He said he is done!!

[JR09]

LNG,

You are right, don't give up on your marriage. I just wanted to encourage you and tell you that if you do your best to DB you can face your challenges with more strenght...and love too.

My W left 19 months ago, but I haven't given up yet. I'm certainly not a pro at DBing, believe me. There are many others on this board who have more experience and insight. But one thing I have to say: only YOU know when it's time to move on. My time hasn't come yet. Maybe never will, don't know. But the DBing process has brought me a lot of peace and renewed strenght that I can do this and maybe even turn the tide with my W someday.

I guess, I just wanted to encourage you and tell you to not give up no matter what.

Cheers,

JR09