Sorry ST, I'm going to disagree with you on this one. Us men don't get subtle... or if we do... it takes like... FOREVER and a day for it to register.
Mind's going to have to TELL him what she wants... exactly like she did today. Then give him some time to digest it -- because even with direct it takes a little while.
good point G, and I know that, but I'm not talking about being subtle. I'm talking speaking loudly thru action. many times guys don't "listen" to us, mostly because we've been the telling/whining type, so our words go in one ear and out the other, so I always say using action with guys can speak louder than words...but I understand what your saying, and since Mindful hasn't been doing ANY R talks, then maybe that would be a better idea.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
