He said he is done!!

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This was our first positive in weeks - I know that this is a long road and he absolulty has to gain my trust again - that is going to take LONG time!

The kids know that this was his decision - my two oldest even saw us hug today and my D16 asked if this meant we are not headed for D - I told her that none of us know what tomorrow will bring but I assured her that I am not giving up on her Dad. It is way too soon for us to be talking about D - even though I thought I really wanted one when I found out about the OW. Now I know that I have to take this one day at a time and still continue with DBing. I told my D16 that marriages are not to be just disregarded unless there is physical abuse... and H and I never had an abusive relationship.