feel like giving up - talk to me!

[S.T. _I Made It!]

stop taking it luv. you keep letting everything he does affect you. you have to stop expecting any husband like behavior from him because right now he is not your H.

So, instead of doing this...

I'm in the back room with all my kids because he's been on his blackberry for 3 hours no joke. He wanted to watch a movie and I said, "if you want me to watch a movie with you put that thing away" he said, "Im not done" like a kid so I said, "ok I'm outta here."

now, you mention he is acting like a kid, but I'm seeing both of you acting the same. So, if he asks to watch a movie, either say "that'd be great, let me know when your done with the phone and I'll come in there" or "sure!" then when he's on his phone, get up and say, "hey, it looks like your busy right now, so I'll pause the movie and just let me know when your ready again to watch" But in a upbeat tone, not an irritated tone.

OR

just say, nah, I've got some stuff I've been wanting to do, thanks for the offer though!

IN AN UPBEAT VOICE. your still carrying around bitterness, and you'll get no where with that.

you want to sound and look like your moving on with your life and that your going to LIVE it. not... I'm going to die because your not giving me the love and attention I want, so I'm going to be miserable and irritated.

if you want to be more like Rob, then start caring about what YOUR doing and quit caring about what HE is doing.