I agree with you - I am also realy honest with my kids. I dont tell them everything however they know exactly whose decision this is and who is D who. They are the reason I didnt want a D in the first place.
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived