Ok - so more thing - he told me that he was prepared for me to be still completely ticked off (the other night I could not even look at him) told me I blew him out of the water by not being and laughed - totally took him by suprised!
I am going to focus and ensure that contact with eachother is as positive as it can be and know that if we do have a bad day to communicate effectively to eachother.
LNG Me - 37 H - 42 S - 19 D - 16 D - 14 M - 20 years S - 1/11/2010 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1942142&page=1