Oh yes - she is married too. My youngest found this hard to believe as he said he has never met him and anyway his words ' how can she be when she is goofying around with dad all the time.'
Kids are so perceptive - hence my 'lionness need' to propect them.
((( )))
My kids are all teenagers so it is easier for them to make their own decisions about who they want to be around and not. They know what has happened - I do not keep secrets with the kids - I wish I had talked with H more like I do the kids - we might not be here if this was the case. H has agreed that OW will not be around them. He also said "I am so sorry that I hurt you" He admits that if we had been able to sit down long before now and talk we would not be where we are today.
Gives me some kind of hope that if we start communicating we might get back on track someday.
LNG Me - 37 H - 42 S - 19 D - 16 D - 14 M - 20 years S - 1/11/2010 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1942142&page=1
