feel like giving up - talk to me!

[luvless]

Yes Pat I needed to be dug out of my crap!

Major update guys - I found proof of other woman. I can't go into detail right now but lets just say my H is backpedalling. I don't know if that is because he is caught or he really wants this marriage.

I read several texts back and forth to the woman I expected he works with. He is professing his love for her and all that BS. I felt blank reading. I don't know if it's shock or it hasn't sunken in yet.

He threatened to leave last night but then turned it around on me and said, "if you don't work on this marriage all hell is gonna break loose." We talked last night and this morning because he had no other choice. He couldn't give me the "I don't wanna talk to you" bit.

I don't know what to do! I told him he has to end this immediately (swears its a close friendship) but bullsh*t!! not gonna even go there..it is what it is. I told him she is a dealbreaker! He is visibly like "oh sh*t."

Talk to me you guys! Rob! where are you??

I got a little power back - not the kind I expected but I have some! I threatened to go to the H. He is scared.