4luv. He's telling you how he FEELS right now, that's all.
You need to learn to distinguish how a person feels in the MOMENT and how someone feels long term.
He does have a deep connection to you and love you. Right now he's miserable and he's sharing that. He is reaching out and he doens't know how to get to a better state of MIND. The PROBLEM is people in this mindset often get IMPULSIVE and ACT on those temporary feelings and do a lot of damage.
YOU can minimize this damage by acknowledging it for what it is and NOT reading more into it.
He loves you. He's scared and frustrated. He feels hopeless and the only solution the hopeless can see is "run away"...
YOU can help by NOT letting his MOOD get to you. For example you likley don't feel happy about your situation EITHER, but you aren't giong to ACT destructively on that. You are working to get PAST that mood hoping for something more positive to show up.
DON'T let what he SAYS get to you. RIGHT in the beginning of divorce remedy Michele says to ignore 100% of what they say and 50% of what they do.
My advice is to STAY AWAY... don't entertain his communicating. Find a FT who will listen to him and give him HOPE.
When you listen to him you just make it worse for you and HE will FEED OFF THAT and get worse himself.
EXTRACTING yoruself OUT of that drama is how you find HOPE and share that hopeful energy with him. Don't subject yourself to his negative energy...its not helping him or you.
