TF, Got through your sitch yesterday, 53 pages it seems as though there has been some softening on your H's part. Do you feel like there has been anymore movement on his part or is it about the same?
I feel like my W is in the same place she was at the end of December, but really not much movement. We had the incident on Jan 2 but I have control of that, "that" being me, so intend to not look or try to find out if she is dating or going out or whatever. I am going to focus on me and being nice to her when I do see her.
I feel like this is the real beginning of the "endurance" for me, she seems like her "old" self when I am around her and communicate over the phone she is just not here. I think we will be friends for sometime before anything else would happen. I plan to use this "limbo" time to really work on me.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.