Sometimes I think I just ramble on this site, and don't participate in a helpful way on others' threads, but I don't trust that I've got particularly good advice.
Yeah, the whole "get together later" thing is such a different equation. We have to heal, move on, be whole in a new life. Maybe the dust settles and the clouds dissipate, and things become more clear... of course, what that clarity illuminates, who knows.
But it's the same old thing, isn't it - focus on self improvement.
