Thank you, Rob.

I'm finding it hard to disengage from him a lot of the time. If I ignore him, then it's almost like he tries to start a fight. If I am pleasant, then he tries to hurt my feelings. It's not all the time, but it's enough that I am terribly confused as to what to do next.

How am I to act when he runs hot and cold like this?

I need to get my copy of DB back from the person I lent it to. I think I am in need of a re-read.


formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.