H. spending more time in common area of house. H. initiating some small talk. I've said very, very little. Talking, laughing & playing more w/ dog & cat than him at the moment.
Friday after work, went to friends house during the blizzard [we got 28"] and spent the night on their couch. Didn't come home until noon yesterday. H. was in living room, said nothing about me staying away over night. When H. didn't come home 2 weeks ago, when I asked him where he was, he responded 'none of your business'. I had that response ready for him, but he didn't ask.
In the interim, H is in heavy contact w/ OW. 20 text ea. per day, 1 - 2 hour phone calls daily. This is going on as I pack up everything in preparation for my move.
Also, was suspicious that H. was reading my journal. Set him up Friday when I left for work. Now I know for sure that H. is reading it. WTF???
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10