perfect. zero contact. I would be maliciously obedient on this request. SFA for now on.
Change your picture as well.
And yes you can write off dbing except to help yourself. As that is what dbing is. To help yourself.
Perhaps you learnt a lesson here. If your willing to see it.
P.S. No Gifts ever. OM can do that. And no friends. She was your wife. And you are not in high school any more. And currently she does not deserve you friendship. Civil only.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!