I am detached. It took me awhile... and your take on detachment is spot on. I have had several ask me about detaching, I have done my best to try and explain it.
I have pasted and copied your words for future use JIC others ask me to explain it. Along with S2 (drop the rope) I believe I have the proper info to pass around.
Thank you for the wise words and excellent description of what all of us are going and have gone thru....
I will be passing this around as I believe it will help all and I know you can not get to everyone here...
God Bless my friend and Thank you!
Me 43 / W 40 T 29 / M 15 S-18 11/4/09-ILYBINILWY 11/10/09-Separated 12/1/09-W admitted EA 12/5/09-W admitted PA 12/24/09 W say "I love you"
"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"