I need "bootcamp" and counseling, too. Actually I am finally able to talk about my divorce without crying so I feel I have made great progress! I can't believe I have been divorced for almost 2 years. I have no desire to date and am content being by myself. I have my moments when I miss being married, but I don't miss the negative aspects of my marriage.
I am so proud of you for working on the debt. Is your H helping in that regard? You sound like you have a goal and are heading in the right direction. I admire you! Stay in touch!
