Lost, I am sorry but I have to agree - there is always another person. Not neccessarily physically but emotionally.
I honestly didnt think my H could have someone else and defended him against everyone. I was wrong - on every occassion that my H has had my kids, guess who just happened to come round his 'friend'. He also took my boys on a short vacation for the first time and guess who not only happened to be in the area but also stayed the night - his 'friend'.
I know that this hurts but there is another person - but you know what it doesnt matter. Dont waste your precious time thinking about it - she is nothing.
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived