He said he is done!!

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I really do feel your pain. My H and I have been together for 21 years and it seems so surreal that he is now gone. You will have good days and bad ones and someone you will get through the bad ones.

I am not the best one to give advise at the moment, just know that you are not alone.

I think the only advise I can give is go dark, easier said than done and really really try to get a life.

Oh and the big one - dont react. When H says that you are trying to keep the kids away from hime, just reply no I am not - you have made the decision to live without them and I am making decisions that are best for me and the kids.