Thanks for this post. Your stitch and my seem very similar and it was interesting to read your post and relate it to mine.
For some reason I dont think that my H and I are done. Like your W I think my H wants a D to see what the other side is like (you know grass is greener etc). Somehow (and I dont know why but I do think that we could remarry one day - however I am not sure I could forgive him for all the hurt.)
Sorry not sure how to put into words my thoughts right now, however your post has been insightful and given me some food for thought on my own stictch.
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived