Hey G-man, It sounds to me like you are in a great place right now, and things are looking as best they can at this time. Keep it up
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The 50's are supposed to be the best decade in a man's life! You got 4 more years left - take advantage of em.
Jeez, I hope so, I struggled with this myself in my sitch for a while with self imposed "My god, I am going to be single in my 40's?" and "Where am I going to find someone as attractive as my stbxw again!" not good places to be in, and when you find yourself thinking like that, your sticking around and holding on to something for the wrong reasons. Takes work to get out of that mindset, but totally limiting beliefs that need to be shed!
There is one - and only one - approach in my book: Live your life. Your life. And see who shows up.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
