Give extended family, in-law relationships a year to find their balance.
Don't burn bridges.
Respect that divorce is gut wrenching for all, not just the divorcing couple and their children. Respect that in-laws hurt too. That neither you or them can be a support when both are wounded.
Allow your children to have their own relationship with their divorcing parent. It won't be what they have with you, but it will be theirs. Respect it and be there to support them.
Children need both parents.. period. Never try to be everything for them.
Keep trying, even if you feel you're not doing as good of a job as you think you could. Children watch. Children model after your behavior.
Give yourself a pat on the back, because you're wonderful.
It's a beautiful day.
*hugs*
As always, you give me perspective, broaden my horizons and point the way. (((GypsyGem)))
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
