#2: WAH separated from us & I'm on the DBing path

[motherof3]

Here's the email that I want to send to H:

H -

I know that you weren't at work today. I called you there so that the children could talk to you.

It doesn't really matter to me why you weren't at work. It does matter that yesterday you told the children and me that you were going to work today, and when you talked to the children today you let them think that you were at work.

Tell them the truth. Tell me the truth. No one benefits from deception, least of all you. You can have privacy without being dishonest.

IMO this email is too wordy. You should use the staples of setting a boundary.

When you lie about your whereabouts to myself and the children I feel disrespected.

When you ____. I feel ____. If you ____. Then I will ____.

Your H doesn't need to know the why's our how's of how you caught on to his little story.

(((Flow)))