Here's the email that I want to send to H:

Quote:
H -

I know that you weren't at work today. I called you there so that the children could talk to you.

It doesn't really matter to me why you weren't at work. It does matter that yesterday you told the children and me that you were going to work today, and when you talked to the children today you let them think that you were at work.

Tell them the truth. Tell me the truth. No one benefits from deception, least of all you. You can have privacy without being dishonest.
The reason that I want to send the email is because I'm worried that if I don't call him on things like this, it will get worse. I've got 15 years of coparenting dependent children ahead of me and even if we D, I think I deserve the basics here. Honesty is a biggie for me.

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