You can then be happy WITH someone, not BECAUSE of someone.
Makes me think back to when the bomb was first dropped. One thing my ex said was "I'm just not happy"...which many said communicated that she had expected me to make her happy. I wonder if she's got co-dependency issues too....and if so will it carry over to her R with OM?
Not that it matters with respect to working on me...but c'mon I'm trying to find a silver lining here.