Oh God I screwed up tonight big time.

I didnt do it intentionally. Im just a DAM.

Got on classmates.com to look for old friends. Searched for my brothers using last name and they came up along with "my wife".

I then uploaded two photos. One of my Son and one of me and her. Big mistake because I used the one of me and her as my profile photo.

I then went to look at her page. Did not leave any notes or anything, just looked at it. What I did not realize is that if you visit, this alerts the owner of the page. And your profile picture will show up with your name on her page. I DID NOT know this.

She thinks I did this on purpose and now tells me no phone calls, no texts, no nothing from me. Zero contact.

Now I can pretty much write off dbing except to help me. I now think I have zero chances of getting her back.

I feel like crap. Why am I such an idiot? I was grey but we were getting along very well and would see each other once or twice a week. That is NOW GONE! And its all my fault.

Maybe this is a good thing in disguise but I don't know. I shot our friendship to hell tonight. She was so upset that she was crying incoherently. She said she did not want her friends to see her photo.


Me:48
W:55
M:22
T:23
Bomb:19Nov09
S:15Jan10
D:11Feb10
EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10
Fast track to her divorcing me