Mind, I am really proud of you stating your thoughts to H.
As am I. You did good.
Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!
so, maybe we could brainstorm on some ways that could show him without telling him, what type of attention you are really wanting.
Sorry ST, I'm going to disagree with you on this one. Us men don't get subtle... or if we do... it takes like... FOREVER and a day for it to register.
Mind's going to have to TELL him what she wants... exactly like she did today. Then give him some time to digest it -- because even with direct it takes a little while.
You've got my kudos on how you handled yourself today M. THAT is the baby-step I've been urging you to take. Carry on with those because THAT'S the way you conquer your fear - and it's going to happen a lot sooner than you think.
