#2: WAH separated from us & I'm on the DBing path

[flowmom]

R2C, thanks for the advice and support.

The apartment is now yours. Set it up the way you want it.

I think I will start babystepping towards that.

People want what they can't have. He will come back after you ONLY AFTER YOU HAVE MOVED ON.

I've figured out why I have trouble deeply accepting the above. I guess it's because I can't imagine my H pursuing me again. I feel like the R is all on my shoulders because it has been for so long. And I guess I have to let go of that. Let go of even working on it in my head and preoccupations.

DO NOT LET FEAR CONTROL YOU.

OK, I need to hear that.