Changing Man

[Super Girl]

Hugs to both of you!

[Buffet]

Hey G---
Must have been my ear twitching but I decided to log in after putting S2 to bed. What GIMA says-----DO NOT GIVE HER YOUR DIGNITY!

You are far more valuable to the world and to all of us on here for you to throw yourself on her sword any more than you already have over the last year or so. I know as I struggle with all of these things on a daily basis that it can be tough, and like many here we keep hoping that the WAW will "wake up" in time to save things, the reality is that many of us have evolved and changed (See YOUR thread title!!!--mini 2x4!) and at this point you are better than her-you deserve more than she can give you and someone else is waiting to find you out in the world.

The longer you hold onto what your ex is not, the longer you are delaying your happiness in the future.

[Gardener]

R2C

I say that the important thing is you got it out of your head. That is all that matters.

You're so right! I didn't even think of it tht way. It was cathartic. Even deleting it was cathartic.

[Gardener]

Thanks for chiming in and helping, buffet.

[Gardener]

Hugs to both of you!

((((hugs)))) back atcha.Thanks.

[Gardener]

I agree with GIMA, DO NOT give her your dignity.
I feel you brother, i truly do. Keep strong Gardener, because you are!!!!
You will be fine.

Thanks, Dane.

[Gnosis]

Hey Gman!

I'm glad you came to your senses because I've run out of 2x4's. Sheesh, with all the virtual 2x4's flying around on DB I'm not surprised Brazil has run out of trees. I'm now waiting on a fresh shipment to come from Africa.

I hope you realize how far you've come Gardener. It wasn't too long ago that you would have sent that email and thought you were doing the right thing. Look at yourself today... you KNEW before posting that it was the wrong thing to do.

Take that as a sign. Strength and Honor bro. I'm privileged to have met you.

[Gardener]

nsw,

wow...where does strength come from when those we look to strength for need it the most?

One of the many good things about this site and the good people on it is that wisdom and strength is always a two-way street, whether newbie or veteran. Thanks.

[Gardener]

Thanks, all.
I'll say one thing (and like most things, I've said it more than once):

Around here, when one of us calls out the Cavalry, the Cavalry always comes charging right in!

[motherof3]

G - I am late to the party.

You received good advice.

(((Gardener)))

I will be praying for your comfort and peace.