Separated--Does Not Admit to OW

[4luv]

allen is right. Before husband and I were married and I found out he had cheated he would answer a few questions but then would blow up in anger...i didn't realize at the time it was control. If your husband can't openly answer all your questions then it is a problem and he doesn't understand what it takes for you to build trust. i think a big mistake we all make is giving people our trust without them having to earn it. Just because you forgive someone doesn't mean that you 100% trust them at the same time...that is earned.