I can surely underdstand where you are coming from. A little over a year ago I suffered a miscarriage 4 months in pregnancy. I never believed my h wanted the baby and I was under ALOT of stress. when I had to go in for the removal, i refused to give birth, I woke up blaming my h screaming at him and pushing him away as i came out of surgery.
he left me while i was pregnant with that child as well. He brought me home and left the next morning with our other child to his mothers for weeks. I suffered serious depression.
Fast forward, i got pregnant again, and very fortunately he's going to be born soon, with a lot of medication and of course no help from H yet again.
Please tell me you have gotten some counseling for the miscarriage? I understand divorce is the last thing you want to be dealing with now. Do not sign anything and find out the guidelines your state has for how much time you have to file a response to his divorce petition.
If you want to look at my post i'm later on in this thread under here we go again. it will make you feel better about your sitch.
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
