Saying you are "fine" really isn't protesting no.. but you will always have more chances.

I am reccomending you be completely silent. I wouldn't even cook dinner to be honest... I would take your son out to dinner and leave your H to fend for himself.

Affair Engaged spouses will try to setup an arrangement at home where everything is fine. They want YOU to be OKAY with his unilateral secret open marriage (affair). When you say fine and make dinner for him it sends the wrong message in my opinion.

Ghandi did NOT tell the British he was fine, and he certainly did not make the british dinner.