nsw, I hear ya on the holes in your home. The other thing to consider for us is how moving things around affects the children. They certainly notice things like that! Not sure what message it sends to them either way though...
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
