Hey Brother,

I hadn't posted but I have been following. This, like all of ours, is a really tough call. I know when I had been at these crossroads, I was soooooo scared to make a mistake. It would drive me crazy to the point I was second guessing myself constantly.

I'm by no means an expert nor should I even offer any advice with my situation being where it is. But I did want to share what someone offered to me that gave me some peace

All I can do is be true to myself if what I do and how I behave. If that is not good enough, then you can at least tell your children that you have always stayed true I yourself and what you believed in. It was her decision to control what she does.

You are handling this craziness incredibly stuck. For this it is my honor to call you brother in this crazy war we fight.

Live life without any regrets.

Love you bro


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13