Thanks for the advice once again. That's why I came back. This approach is in everything I read. Tough Love by Dobson, MLC forums, on and on. If she is going to come back, she will have to be the one to pursue it. If she returns on the current terms I will be the designated doormat.
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.
