flowmom...I hate to suggest this, but when my ex was lying to me about hwere she was and what she was doing, she was covering up her relationship with an OM.

that doesnt mean it's true in your case...but it was in mine.

Me - 32
EX - 26
D - 3

BOMB: 11/02/09
EA/PA confirmed 1/29/10

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1953269