Hey K, sorry to hear about your evening. A nice romantic concert followed by Italian food and wine and then the couch and your wife goes to bed alone? ..... I am shaking my head in disbelief. I wish I could try to explain his lack of warmth, I am not even talking about sex here....just some type of physicality or positive emotion. I think the time for excuses is over. I am sure he did not act this way 4 or 5 years ago?

Hang in there Maria....I can't believe it is as bad as you describe it.