You are totally right. I have been trying to correct all my misgivings. I have been helping out a lot more. I am paying more attention to her. I suppose that's where I find the 180 so confusing. If I was kind of distant before and into work and hobbies maybe the 180 should be in the other direction.
That has been my focus since I left the forum.
I want to make her the center of attention now but she wont have anything of it.
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.
