I wished more people had the determination to press forward and make their life go on.....like you are doing. Yes it is hard, but you "are" doing it, Tom. That is what counts. Don't beat yourself up if and when the hurt hits, b/c after all....you are human and you have to feel some of that in order to grieve and keep living. I really admire a man who shows his inner strength by not allowing himself to sink in total dispare. Maybe I'm not stating this very well, but I hope you know what I mean. You are working to help yourself.....and that is what you should be doing. Good job!


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!