what those guys said....besides Frank, some of this is irrevocable. Some of it is not. That which isn't, you'll improve upon and your kids will at some point get a better attitude about decorating their new room (they'll have TWO and you can spin that so it doesn't ALL suck for them...we moved 17 times in the military and out, and it is hard but you can take steps to make it easier).
As for your stbxw crying, all I can say is, "at last". I don't mean it vengefully, but I think she MAY realize it's not all about her. Someone else is hurting and perhaps instead of turning that into anger at you, she can feel something for THEIR pain....
hugs and prayers to you FIB, stay strong and all that "guy stuff" the guys said...it's good. j-
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