Vegas, yeah!!! I'm there!!! Never been, if you can believe that.
Originally Posted By: Cie la vie
I should know your sitch better but you are pushing the D/separation along in your case or are you simply responding?
I am not pushing anything. When my W was in the hospital for suicide watch, her sister pushed her to get a Lawyer, Controlling b%$ch, (I can say that b/c I used to be a controlling a$$) My wife would have never gotten a lawyer on her own. Now, I feel like she feels like she has to follow through with this crap.
She/her lawyer filed a separation complaint with all this crap about support, custody, legal fees, etc. so I had to go hire a L myself (big waste of money, as we have none) I am actually gather documents right now to give to my L to respond to complaint. I have dragged my feet for 2 weeks on this, I just want to get it over. No one can file for D in North Carolina until you have been physically separated for a year and a day (August 26, 2010). I am not going to file, DBing my a$$ off until then.
Formerly "missherlove"
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