Going straight forward...antlers 6th thread.

[antlers]

Antlers,

I'm sorry for what is going on in your sitch. I don't get what's going on with your W, especially regarding the need for a father for them. Keep up with the changes you're making. Maybe over time she'll see them.

Regarding your case, does your L think the fact that custody has been a certain way for a year now, that a judge will look at that fact?

Also, would it be a good idea to let the kids chime (to the court) in about their desire to stay with you, at least 50% of the time?

You may want to have witnesses on your behalf lined up, because it sounds as if your wife will use whatever tactics she can to get what she wants.

Hey man.

Yeah, it's a b!tch. I'm dealing with a hateful and vindictive woman, plain and simple. I'm gonna continue getting better and stronger, for me...whether she ever sees the changes or not.

I hope to heck the fact that custody has been this way for over a year will mean something to the Judge!

Their mom got a GAL involved with the case to do investigations, and they'll talk to the kids. Afterwards, they'll do an on-camera hearing with each kid individually and no counsel or parents will be there.

I'm lining them up right now...and yeah, she will do whatever it takes, regardless of who gets hurt (including the kids), to get what she wants. It's hard for me to get my brain around the fact that she's actually doing this crap!