Don't give up hope. I really believe that sex therapy, my working on GAL, No More Mr. Nice Guy, and making my wife feel she is loved in her languages of love (Chapman 5 languages of love) has all made a big difference. The support I have gotten here and the advice to slow down were also very important to me.
My wife and I have had sex a second time now and I think that things are starting to improve a lot. We have run away for the weekend and playing together.
Good luck to you!
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
