Just take care of goldey. You have some healing to do, and some more time that needs to pass. In-laws will do the same for themselves. Really work on having compassion for goldey...that not only means caring about your hurts, it means being willing to do something about those hurts.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
