I was LMAO too, then I took a shower just in case I was too knightly last night~
Amazing how rough language can come up anywhere...!
I'm not sure if anyone's asked you or I have, or you've said it, but was your wife's affair physical? Also, have you met or do you know this guy?
Using the yet more med language, a virus can't be killed without the body knowing what the virus looks like, adapting to meet it, and then comes the swallowing it whole and **** it out. Don't become the pursuer, but if you know more in a calm way, maybe it might help (disclaimer, I've never been in your shoes!)
