Yes, antlers, people do screw up big time.. After months of intense therapy, he's realized a few things. It continues to amaze me, though, that a therapist wouldn't say "run like he!! away from that relationship which was built upon lies!
Suzy - He is still living w/OW and yes, wanting to see if we can possibly work things out and if not, seems like he's going to stay with her. I don't even get that way of thinking. I'm sure OW has NO idea that things aren't perfect in her little fantasy world.
Sounds like you're unsure, understandably! I wouldn't count on his mindset of "I want to be with you, but if it doesn't work out, then I'll stay with her"!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
