Yes, antlers, people do screw up big time.. After months of intense therapy, he's realized a few things. It continues to amaze me, though, that a therapist wouldn't say "run like he!! away from that relationship which was built upon lies!
Suzy - He is still living w/OW and yes, wanting to see if we can possibly work things out and if not, seems like he's going to stay with her. I don't even get that way of thinking. I'm sure OW has NO idea that things aren't perfect in her little fantasy world.
Married 12 years 2 Children Bomb 6/2007 Divorced 8/2009